Fixes https://github.com/flutter/flutter/issues/136698.
Alters how `throwToolExit` creates its matcher. This results is an improved description of the matcher.
The mismatch description isn't improved by this, but I writing an entirely custom matcher to fix this isn't ideal either. We can instead mitigate the issue by augmenting the `toString` implementation of `ToolExit` to include the exit code, if it is non-null.
With these changes, the first few lines of output from a test would look like this:
```
Expected: throws <Instance of 'ToolExit'> with `exitCode`: <42> and `message`: contains 'message'
Actual: <Closure: () => Never>
Which: threw ToolExit:<Exit code: 41232. Error: message>
```
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